QUOTE (ceejay @ Sep 24 2009, 10:12 AM)

Your well-written piece ignores the fact that at the core of much ongoing poverty is drugs. Most prostitutes are drug-addicted, and turning tricks is the way to get their daily quota either on the streets or from the pimp who is also their supplier.
It also ignores generational poverty fed by poor example and lousy life choices. And the answer isn't to keep pouring money into the bottomless bucket or to politically elect those who will keep the money flowing.
You're right on each point, but off-base on the whole overall. Everything you list, and much more, is an
aspect of life on the other side of the cultural divide, true. But no one of them, or even group of them lumped together, accurately portray the totality of "otherness" that is
the culture of this other world.
We persist in talking about symptoms, when in truth
we need to look at the disease as a whole and give it a name before we can productively talk about a cure.
See, it's not just about choices or opportunities, it's about the perspective, the
world view from which you see and measure them. And those on the "other side" don't share your views, your perspectives, your moral compass,
your culture. This is where I stopped using the term "class divide" some time back, because it's not about "an impoverished and disenfranchised
class within
our culture", really. It's a separate culture altogether, occupying the American landscape alongside us, but ultimately doing so divided from us by wholly differing perspectives about the basic realities of life.
So, essentially when
our people try to address
their people and explain why they should stop using drugs, joining gangs, being prostitutes, dropping out of school, having fatherless children etc, it nominally has all the effect of telling Eskimos the benefits of a 401(k).
I realize that much of this is terribly un-PC, but think on the last few times members of the "other culture" came on TalkBack in some numbers. Not only did we find ourselves speaking to each other in two completely different languages, but also from perspectives that neither side seemed able to wrap their minds around. And, in one instance, we were labeled as
culturally insensitive.
Think about that.
As much as I wanted to believe, at the time, that the charge was a catch-phrase picked up in church or from some ACORN-type, I find that I'm more inclined to think the writer really meant it. "You don't
get us".
And if the plain truth is to be spoken, the vast majority of "us"
don't get "them". And "they"
don't get "us".
One nation, two distinct cultures. Divided along socio-economic lines to a large degree to be sure, but equally divided by nearly all aspects of "perceiving the world around us" as well.
And in my mind, at least, this is the honest place from which any conversation about
change must begin. Acknowledge the disease, openly, then start looking for a cure. If there is one.