QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Nov 25 2007, 06:54 PM) [snapback]338714[/snapback]
but give the guy a break already. He made a big huge mistake.
I too believe in forgiving in nearly all cases, but forgiveness is a personal matter, not a professional one.
"The guy made a huge mistake." This is an understatement. Someone pointed out earlier that Google will by now have this thread and all its content cached, and the therapist guy's business will likely come up under this in future Google searches.
True, but there's much more than that to it.
The Cullens will also be subject to this curse. She a lawyer and he a judge, and any interested party wanting to check them out on Google may well enter just enough search info that they will get a cached version of Mr. Therapist's "Dear Deadbeat" post. The searcher may not follow up further to see the entire context, or Google's inscrutable caching system may not provide an easy route to the rest of the thread.
So for the foreseeable future, the Cullen's now have it over their heads that someone wanting to find good references to them online may instead find a strong inference that they ignore bills, pass bad checks and dodge attempts at contact by slighted vendors.
Nice reference.
Yes Goldi, we all make mistakes, and I'll freely admit I've made my share in full.
I've also paid a price for the more incredibly stupid things I've done along the way. That's how it works - do something really stupid, pay the piper. If doing stupid thoughtless things didn't bring harsh rewards (in most cases), the world would look and act like an Outlet Center parking lot. It pays to think, and it costs not to.
That being said, I have a hard time believing that a supposedly successful therapist could really be too stupid to open a phone book or call Schreiber for contact info to settle a $20 issue, AFTER sitting on a check for three months.
That sounds more like lazy than stupid. Or even possibly lazy coupled with vindictive. The bounced check no doubt cost the vendor a fee at his end, and quite possibly in a thoughtless moment he sought to find a venue to make the check writer "pay the price" without bothering to think about the larger picture.
Either way, the damage is done and cannot be undone. Forgiven in the end by the Cullens, the author, Schreiber et al would be nice and warm and fuzzy, but he should meanwhile face the consequences of his incredibly stupid action.
Call it a learning experience.