QUOTE(mcullen3212002 @ Apr 26 2006, 05:29 PM) [snapback]192145[/snapback]
Hi! I have had 6 children graduate from the SdoL and one who is now a senior.
For my youngest 2 , I am doing a cyber charter school.I also help my grandson, who is in cyber school.
On the plus side, the students in SdoL get to meet children from many different backgrounds and cultures.
On the negative, depending on where you live, many of the classrooms have a large number of students. If you have a child who needs attention or if your child is smart and picks up things quickly and needs an intellectual challenge, I do not recommend SDoL in the elementary and middle schools.
Because of the No Child Left Behind, most of the emphasis is on bringing the students up to grade level. In many classrooms, the students are 2 or more grade levels BEHIND. This means if your child is advanced, he or she will not be a priority. Gifted programming is virtually nonexistent.
Also, I have a child with special needs and I feel I can give him a better education working with him one on one.
Also on the negative, I feel students pick up many of the negative behaviors of their peers such as foul language, fighting, and disrespect to those in authority. While you may not have these negative values in your home, it is very difficult to outweigh peer influence.
My advice would be to find a school environment that has high academics with students striving to excel and where they encourage your child to have positive values. You will be happier if you choose an alternative to the SDoL, at least for elementary and middle school. Trust me! Most of my friends have sent their children to the New School,.Lancaster Country Day, or are doing homeschool/cyberschool if they live in Lancaster City.They are thrilled with the change in their child.
MAMC
P.S. e-mail me privately if you want more information.
Thanks, you have confirmed everything we are concerned about. Our daughter is a full year younger than grade peers and in gifted/advanced classes. She doesn't have to work very much to get all a's. We were very concerned that she would not be challenged enough at SDoL. What a shame. I would love to live in the city again. We had her in The School, loved the program but our child just didn't have enough self-motivation. Country Day is out of our price range. So I guess we stay in the burbs.